So here I am. More than 3 yrs post op and my life is completely different than the one I used to lead. I'm getting divorced, I have a new wonderful man in my life, I moved, I started nursing clinicals and I am determined to live a life full of happiness and peace!
My weight fluctuates 15 lbs or so... and it's always a constant struggle to stay in control. I guess somewhere inside I'll always be fighting that fat girl! lol I usually wear a size 8 or 10 and I'm ok with that. It's a far cry from the size 28/30 I started at!
The kids are doing amazing. Hannah is in middle school. Abby is in 3rd grade and Gabe started preschool this year.
School for me is exciting and stressful. I am determined to finish though and get that RN degree in my hand! I'm still working at the nursing home and gaining a lot of experience.
My marriage fell apart, but truly I don't think the weight loss had anything to do with. It was already failing. All the weight loss did, was allow me to see that I could accomplish anything I set my mind to and that I did not have to settle for being treated in any way that was harmful or caused me pain or sadness. I chose to take my life back and I am truly happy!
My boyfriend Chad is amazing and I am so blessed to have him in my life!!!
I will post some updated pics!
4 comments:
I am so pleased to see a post from you, have been seeing how happy you look on some of your Facebook posts.
So good to have an update from you! I hate to hear that you are getting divorced, but I COMPLETELY understand. You sound so happy with everything and that is exactly what you deserve! I am now 2 years post op and have gained about 10lbs back which really sucks. I really want to have another baby but that hasn't happened yet, my cycles are still not regular. Are you on facebook? Here's my page, so add me when you get a chance: http://www.facebook.com/treyandkelly.hefner
Hope to hear from you soon.
Kelly Hefner
Amber! It's fantastic to get an update from you - but wow, a lot has happened! I am sad to hear about the divorce, but happy that you have moved on and found new love and stability. In the end, that's what matters.
Well, divorcing is not easy, but it takes a lot of courage to do it, so congratulations for not being a coward...Hope things will work better with Chad, I believe after all this journey and the inner struggle you have become a better you, so you are stronger now...Congratulations for getting what you wanted, you have to keep on fighting, either it is weight loss or life in general!
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